Nov 15 2007
How to Seduce a Man
- “The most important thing is to promise your target whatever it is that they are missing.” If they have a hot, willing girlfriend, all the cleavage in the world won’t help, but chances are she is neglecting him in other areas - maybe she doesn’t listen or take care of him (we all know the surest way to a man’s heart is his stomach, right?), so you need to offer whatever your competition cannot. Make him feel like a King, like someone important (but never let him walk all over you) and he will always come back for more. This is how you KEEP your man, too. If there is no competition, read on.
- Get your confidence up. This can mean doing things such as getting a new haircut, new clothes, losing weight, or just reminding yourself of your great qualities. You need to make the man like you before you can make a move.
- Spread mysterious, taboo-filled rumors about yourself. A good example is “yeah, I’m kinda seeing a guy, but I can’t talk about it because he’s a lot older. It’s nothing serious.” If you glaze over the Saab muffler , it seems more interesting than it really is. Guys will hear about it and be intrigued.
- Use a seductive tone of voice. Not too nasal, not too high — throaty and soft is most appealing.
- Wear clothing that is fashionable and shows just enough skin to make men want to see more.
- Learn to dance. Dancing is one of the most seductive things a girl can do.
- Learn to walk like a model: strong, confident, with a good swagger and with excellent posture.
- Wait until you can tell he is interested. Guys never like unwanted advances.
- Be flirty with your target. Do not do anything too obvious. Just let him know that you’re interested, possibly by glancing or winking at him. When you talk to him, lean in and show some cleavage–even if you don’t have much. The point is to show that you’re happy with your body and you don’t mind that he gets a preview.
- Hint at your target’s weak points. If he works too much, suggest that he is missing out on a lot of fun. If he is a party animal, suggest that he will never get a girl unless he makes money.
- Ignore him for a little while. Give him the space and time to forget about the things that may have turned him off and fantasize about the good things. Never reveal too much of yourself because you almost certainly will turn him off. Another idea is to cancel plans you made with him and give a sincere, heartfelt apology.
- Touch him, perhaps on the hand or wrist. This will subtly demonstrate that you are interested.
- Offer him a massage to help break down physical barriers or say that you are sleepy and put your head on his shoulder. If he is shy, back off or leave the room for a while to let him get over his shyness and fantasize about where it could have gone from there.
- Get in close. Talk to him, and let him know you like him. Guys like to hear that they are wanted just as much as girls do. If he has a slim or medium build, say how strong he is. If he is not so smart, tell him how smart he is (at the right time). Say that it feels good when he holds you. Also, just listen to him.
- Make eye contact with your target. The eyes are said to be windows to the soul, and you want to make sure he knows you’re trying to get inside his soul. When you are locked in a loving glance, talk about small stuff like the weather, the movie you just saw, or dinner and use short simple words. Talk only about the present moment.
- Make sure that he kisses you.
- It’s up to you whether to take it to the next level or not. If he thinks of you as a conquest, tell him that and leave. He will fall in love with you eventually. If you feel he genuinely adores you, take it all the way.
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